Tobey Maguire and his wife Jennifer Meyer have called it quits after nine years of marriage, ET Canada can confirm.

In a statement from People, the former couple said in a joint statement, “After much soul searching and consideration we have made the decision to separate as a couple. As devoted parents, our first priority remains raising our children together with enduring love, respect and friendship.”

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While not much has been said about the root of their separation, a source told Us Weekly, “It was not sudden and there was no drama […] They went back and forth on this decision but realized this is where the relationship is and they simply grew apart.”

The 41-year-old “Spider-Man” actor and 39-year-old jewellery designer first met in 2003. The couple wed four years later in a romantic ceremony in Hawaii in front of an intimate group of family and friends, which included Maguire’s “The Great Gatsby” co-star Leonardo DiCaprio.

They have two children together: Ruby, 9, and Otis, 7.