Pamela Anderson appeared to confirm she’d split from French footballer Adil Rami in an emotional Instagram post Tuesday.
Anderson, 51, shared a snap of the pair, who were on and off for two years, alongside a caption saying Rami, 33, had been “living a double life.”
The model posted, “It’s hard to accept. The last (more than) 2.years [sic] of my life have been a big lie.
“I was scammed, led to believe… we were in big love? I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life.”
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It’s hard to accept 💔 The last (more than) 2.years of my life have been a big lie. I was scammed, led to believe … we were in « big love »?. I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life. He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters. ? But this is worse. He lied to all. How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this – I’m sure there were others. He is the monster. How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial and not be wise enough or able to help myself.
Anderson and Rami were thought to have started dating in 2017 after meeting at the Monaco Grand Prix.
They reportedly split in September 2018 before getting back together in March of this year.
Anderson was rumoured to have turned down the Marseille footballer’s marriage proposal before the breakup.
Anderson then appeared to confirm Rami had been cheating on her with his ex Sidonie Biémont and mother of their twins, Zayn and Madi, born in 2016, in numerous letters, presumably emails, shared on the star’s website.
Biémont posted: “Just to be honnest [sic]: We broke up in June (2016) – as every summer then we’d usually get back together- then I learnt in the press he met you…. so did my family and friends.
“I’m really hurt and did a long therapy but seriously this man has a good heart but lying issues, and obviously self confidence troubles too He sweared [sic] kids never met you neither your dog.”
Anderson said: “I’ve never met a man like this. Living multiple lives. I’m in shock.”
The messages also contain allegations that Rami was violent toward Anderson. “He was very cruel to me at times,” one message reads. “He threw me around by my hair in L.A. last summer because I left him to go to a hotel after a photo shoot with friends.”
The message later says that Anderson needed to go to the hospital after Rami “crushed both my hands,” the message reads. “I needed to go to hospital (6 months after) because I was in so much pain. I couldn’t write [or] open a water bottle. They need to put me to sleep to do injections.”
The “Baywatch” star revealed on her Instagram that she’d decided to share the emails because she has a “responsibility to continue to help others.
“I went through this for a reason.”
Biémont said she and Rami had stopped the “affair” in early 2019 as she and Anderson discussed the love triangle.
The two ladies then arranged to meet up in Paris to discuss things further, with Anderson insisting she was leaving Rami “for good this time.”
On Sunday, Rami responded by denying Anderson’s allegations of violence, taking to Instagram to share a lengthy statement written in French.
“I wish to tell you that these accusations of violence are completely false and I can’t let them run,” he wrote.
According to Rami, the only reason he “kept silent” until now is that he “was shocked” by the allegations and worried he wouldn’t be able to “speak without every word being interpreted.'”
He continued: “It’s one thing to lie to keep a good relationship with her ex and her children but lying about violence in order to hurt me that’s going too far and it’s unjust.”
He concluded by once again denying Anderson’s claims of violence. “Once again, I won’t allow these false accusations on me and my family to remain unanswered. All of this is too bad.”
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Salut tout le monde. Bon j’ai pas le choix, je suis désolé. J’ai gardé le silence parce que je suis choqué et c’est super difficile de prendre la parole sans qu’on interprète chaque mot. Mais j’ai trop de choses sur le coeur. Je vais faire simple et super clair et comme je l’ai déjà dit je ne vais pas commenter les détails de notre vie avec Pamela. Je tiens à vous dire que ces accusations de violences sont complètement fausses et je peux pas laisser passer ça. J’hallucine tellement c’est grave. Ceux qui me connaissent savent qui je suis et mes valeurs. Ils savent que c’est impossible et que j’en suis incapable. Si elle voulait me toucher elle a bien choisi. Elle sait que mon engagement pour la cause des violences faites aux femmes est quelque chose de vraiment important pour moi. Je respecte trop les gens de solidarité femmes que j’ai rencontré et ce combat ! C’est vraiment dégueulasse. Après voilà je respecte la décision de l’association , ça m’attriste mais je respecte . Après mentir pour garder une bonne relation avec son ex et ses enfants c’est une chose , mais utiliser des mensonges sur la violence pour me nuire , ça va trop loin et c’est injuste. Encore une fois je ne laisserai pas ces accusations fausses sur moi et ma famille sans réponse. Tout ça est trop grave. Voilà j’ai dit ce que j’avais à dire et avec le coeur. Je laisse les pros s’en occuper maintenant. Pour moi place à l’avenir. Adil 💪🏽🙏💫
ET Canada has contacted Anderson and Rami’s reps for comment.